I am a mom of five ages 23-12 and have given my life to them. Keep fighting. Do you work? I’ve learned in my own life that when I expect people to respond or act in a certain way, then I am often disappointed. I don’t think my parents live like this when they were younger like me. Before that, I was a writer and minister who made a very good living as an administrative assistant. They all took and kicked you aside. I’m sorry to hear that. ” Wow it was such an awesome present sitting alone with my daughter downtown. Laurie. Do some charity work/volunteering once a week. Dolphins and golden retrievers always look like they’re smiling! I have been feeling pretty low myself but after reading some other people’s feelings, I realize I am not alone and these feelings will pass. Millie, I am at a crossroad in my life. It is true, no one cares! You are not the center of the universe. Try to do it every morning. So yeah, I am feeling a little hopeless. If I disagree about her toxicity she really becomes destructive. But he won’t want to go back…not ever. I dont know how much more suffering I can take. I know my family loves me but I know beyond that no one else cares. I’m so sorry you have been treated that way. Every single day is a repeat of the last because there is nowhere for me to go, nothing for me … Thank you for being here. These were people who didnt truly care about our friendship but what I could offer on their terms. I'm losing my faith in God. But Who am I? I feel unheard. I am a believer and have been beating myself up for these feelings of loneliness and anger. It’s all about ego and money. You need to grieve the fact that your mom isn’t who you want her to be, and neither is your husband. Eleonor, I thank you for your blatant honesty. So now, how do I foresee my future? I had a session of EMDR from an incident in my early teens and I finally dealt with it. The woman I thought was my best friend stopped talking to me calling me a “perpetual victim” and told me to “grow up”. I wore jeans and a tshirt because I was traveling with carry-on bags only, and I don’t wear dresses or heels or makeup. A walk, a nice coffee or tea, whatever. Who else would care? so she keeps doing it all over again and again. From Isaiah 41:10. You could try asking her in a gentle way if there’s anything she wants to talk about. My father died of this illness and I watched him die and it was horrific. i’m currently going through perimenopause and having to deal with our 3 year old as well as my husband’s mood swings. she always picks up my flaws and holds it against me, at least that’s what I feel. Regarding your kid, Kshill Gilbran says our children are not our own. I just lost everything in a number of weeks, my loved ones are all far from me, I feel like I’m in prison that I can’t get out of and I don’t know what to do. One step is a start. I know I come across as a negative older woman who has given up. And You know what, maybe this could be even called as one of Your purposes of life. It could be possible that your mother is going through something herself that she has yet to get the help for. It’s an Old Testament book of the Bible that talks about how everything is meaningless, a chasing after the wind. I don’t think anyone who is aware they feel like this and is openly expressing it will have to deal with it for too much longer. Maybe it’s volunteering, or maybe it’s just picking garbage in your neighborhood. I am sadness. Then there are the families with yelling and violence. We all live for a brief moment, then die, and what’s the point? I love God and believe He loves me…but sometimes it’s nice to have a person to actually talk to who is here in person! Very loved by God. hi ,, Do it every day. It must be so hard for you, to feel alone in this world. . I feel rejected. My mother always did the best should could for my brother and myself!! I have a family but I feel like I don’t belong here. :”) When i was 8. Has anyone taken you up on your offer? I know. I’ve tried to force things, let nature takes it course, ignore it, but it’s always there. Alone, unwanted & no one cares, I have felt like this for a long time and drowned my feelings with binge drinking. This is good – as long as you don’t stay there. He has completely ghosted me and will not answer any of my texts or phone calls. I feel such a failure !!! How Do You Trust God After Losing Someone You Love? Also her mirror work. I believe perhaps most of my problems in my life could stem from this. I’m sorry for admitting it, but yes – it is quite a foolish thought to expect that Your wife will change her mind. Nobody cares about me Anonymous. “How much money would I give to find a prospective mate”. To have people around you who do not value you as their life long partner or the best father in all the world, it has to hurt. The truth is we all go through times like this. Sounds like a wonderful thing to do. I feel like I wasted my life. He hugged me and said, “I’d go anywhere with you.”. You give the example of having a friend that says they’ll miss you when ur gone.., atleast you have a friend! I’ve made clear I don’t care to live here, where we are; I’ve made clear I don’t feel we’re in the right place. If you do, winning takes care … I asked who he had as witnesses amd he began liating my church people. Not just to meet people but to keep busy. Letting go of your expectations is about grieving what you wish you had. Relatives far away and not close. Where we will not be alone. it seems we are too afraid to give our true feelings of life to people, we fear they don’t want to know and don’t want to hear, we fear they will think LESS of us, think that we are not the strong person they thought we were, we are being oppressed with our true and real feelings, because why do we feel like this, because we are REAL and we FEEL and there is something making us feel the way we do, we feel like we can’t connect with people, how have we come this far – the year 2019 but gone so backwards with expression?!? lybility for them…..my life just sucks…. I think you want connection more than anything. It’s very lonely. So get yourself centred, rebalance emotionally and make sure you understand your rights. My husband works 6 and 7 days a week. It’s for these days that I wait and know there really is more to this life besides disappointment and pain. The only one who gets excited to see me and/ or shows that he cares about my existence is my dog. And I haven’t met him yet. but You’re STILL LIVING! Mandy, thank you for your kind thoughts! I’m in a tremendous amount of pain, physical and emotional. But my eyes are open to how unimportant I am to my family that I need to deal with this with the Lord. So far away. Nature, looking at the birds, seeing them equal to yourself and saying I’m not alone. Probably because that book shows me that even thousands of years ago, the richest and wisest Teacher felt alone and lonely. It’s very difficult…we suffer so that we can let go of all the passions…all the things that separate us from God..So that..when we realize we are nothing without God we are able to be filled with divine grace. E-Harmony has you answer a lot of questions, then send notices of others that think like you do ( they even give you a percentage, and the other persons answers that you didn’t agree on. You will get back what you have put out to others, be it good or bad! I would love to join and talk…. Learn what Halena wants to do. nobody cares Lyrics: Tell me why I'm waiting for someone / That couldn't give a fuck about me / Oh, oh you wouldn't / Tell me why I'm waiting for someone / That couldn't give a fuck about me / Oh, oh And reach out to people in person. no ones gonna care, but these episodes have been getting worse. Putting on lipstick. No one who will stick around long enough for me to tell them the truth about what I have been going through recently. I guess we just go on autopilot hoping one day we’ll wake up seeing the glass half full. I told my daughters that their emotional distance disrespects the commitment I made to them when I was a single mom. I’m also sad because my daughter who lives in a state many miles away is home for the holidays but has spoken to me only 10 times. His girlfriend but now wife joined in persecuting me so much that I lost my group of friends. I was with my wife 27 years , I love her and still do. Reading Ecclesiastes ALWAYS makes me feel better, because it helps me remember that I’m not as alone as I think I am. Thank you I really needed to read this…everything you said was true… I need too get my self togather with my heavely father…. I feel like no one cares about me. I want to move back East but it will crush my other daughter. $500.00? Also that He never leaves my side, and continues to show his presence in my life. I gave it too him. My own kids are too busy for me, they just roll their eyes. Just stay strong. My Son, and myself. But the truth is I feel like I’m not very well liked at work by most of the co-workers. I hate living alone, and I hate making all the decisions because I always make the wrong one. They will treat you the way you treat yourself, because that is what you teach them. I was given the option of waiting 9 months for trial or pleading guilty to charges in order to get out of jail. .the sisters…but im like a fifth wheel. I have feel completely invisible. But can you find other interests? We were created to be friends and companions, to journey through life together. However, this does not mean we ***deserve*** to be victims. You’re not hiding behind walls. What If I Told You. I am sorry for your pain. I’m usually an optimistic person that likes to help others, but when this happens, I get a sense of emptiness combined with increasing hatred to the way society has become, and so I look up things like “why did the world become like this” or “what to do when no one cares about your problems”, hoping to find some magical solution, and so I ended up here. I can relate to your soul. months later, everyone is singing it because it was on the radio Anonymous. I am the one in my class who mostly gets humiliated by two guys in my class. I have multiple sclerosis a camcer. I’m 25 and feel like my life is stuck. My mum is not loving or affectionate and I have come to accept this. I realize your response is an older one from last year, but I had to jump on here and say I truly hope and pray things have gotten better for you. I think they are smiling because they are so enthusiastic and happy. I came home, my roommate wasn’t home and so I decided to text my friend who was at Polaris mall with my other friend and her mom. Remember that this is a temporary season of loneliness and isolation. And I feel like I’ve isolated myself trying to find myself. I have been down and feeling like no one cares for me. Loneliness? I wish I could say this to my family but they don’t care because they only use me for my money since I’m the only with a stable job . I am lost. Life wasnt supposed to be this hard. I get along in the world great, however, when I am put under enormous stress, the PTSD comes out. No matter what happens do not resort to methods like self harm because it only distracts you from your pain, does NOT alleviate it. I’ve been praying because I know God loves me but sometimes I feel like it will be like this forever. You might even be surprised that when you’re older, your relationship with your mother could be everything you ever wanted from her right now. It is exhausting listening to her constantly but she is ill, so now I see her once a week (still supportive) but not every day which was draining me. Yes, I do recognize most people cared nothing about my time in jail and big debt for something I never did in my life, but far worse is the young women who continues to express her love for me was forced against her will to sign a lying statement that put me in jail. I wish I was dead and had a tiny corner in heaven “rent free”. I care for nobody, no, not I, If nobody cares for me. Maybe an evening class. I feel every one including my husband just want to be around me because all the favour that i can offer and not really because they want me. What Secretly Delights You About Social Isolation? I aolitary. Believe me – you are not alone! I fell so in love with her that it devastated me . Two adult children and I understand how you feel. I am a single mother with now a 23 year old and no family. Nobody Cares” is a catchphrase uttered by character Dennis Nedry in a dialogue scene from the 1993 science-fiction film Jurassic Park. Sorry you are going through that. I am better now and can work, but not making enough to live on my own. He is mine. Last boyfriend got dentures out of me and he was gone. Nobody cares how much you know, until they know how much you care. Remember, everyone is struggling in one way or the other and you cannot compare whose struggle is bigger. :( . There are people who like you are in unloved homes or at home completely alone like me. Hold on. But I never imagined he’d say that. When did it start and what was happening at that time? It’s more important than ever to be gentle and kind with yourself. But I was try to be more intentional in seeking lonely people. Ari has absolutely no interest in visiting the island resort where traumatic memories are repressed. I love her dearly but can’t live up to her expectations anymore. I also suffer from depression and that and the extreme loneliness feed off each other to the point where many days I just lay around and cry my eyes out. I’m sorry you are not finding the understanding you sought from those you believed could give it to you. Wish there was a club where we got a person to make sure we were alive everyday and listen to what we ate for dinner. Once in high school my brother denied knowing me and several times I’m a bit embarrassing to my siblings as I’m fat so I’m left out of alot of things. If I can just say something: Left friends. I work from home with really no communication from my company other than what my production numbers should be. Something you like e.g. My therapist said I will need 2 years of this since the trauma events were my whole childhood. Get help. I just want to show you a better way to cope with feeling unloved, unwanted, and abandoned. The worst part was my friend was getting married at the exact same time and didn’t want to ask me to be her bridesmaid because I was feeling so devastated! Oh, heavens could this be God that I found this or sheer coincidence? It’s true what’s Ecclesiastes says everything is pointless . I don’t know what to do. It’s hard but it is the only way I could heal. Hi Cici, i am really sad and sorry for what you have had to deal with in your life and i think those previous relationships/lack of have really affected the way you feel now. I know sometimes hope can seem far away, but it always remains in the Lord and in people who know what you’re going through and will listen. I’m up while everyone else is sleeping. I will listen if you ever want to send a message my way. Its all the sad songs put together. Every SINGLE TIME I need help from any of them, every single one of them bails out on me, with the most bs of excuses. Danny and I were in the car going to have a Ct scan done and he started hemmoraging and bleed to death in my car. Maybe one way to cope with the feeling that nobody cares is to do the unexpected: start taking care of others. I believe that if given the chance to remove yourself from such an environment, you would experience a great surge of relief that may help remove the clouds from your mind. All I can do is keep being positive and trying to establish connections with people and just pray that one day I’ll wake up and see the life I always dreamed of in front of me. My parents are alive, but elderly, and not in good health; Mom is in a nursing home with Alzheimer’s and Dad has cancer. I walked through the throngs of glamorous women, looking for the least, lost, and lonely. I feel alone on my days off even though I look forward to them. Love to you. It just feels that no one has time for me, it’s like I just exist. They also won’t help me and won’t listen to my problems. My friends are getting better grades than mine. The night did end. Because i realise and feel God has turned his back on me. This yearning and “hole” for that has caused me great loneliness, grief, sadness, and sin in my life. We as listeners care about you and we are here 24/7 to assist. When you say “no one cares about me”, you’re admitting your true feelings. I know no one cares for me! I do understand pain. I’d say, even cut them out. The main thing is love yourself and forgive yourself. However, I was attracting the wrong friends. Try to lead a decent life . I can’t feel love to my soul even i know the one person who is genuinely love me is my son. I was married to an abusive alcoholic who almost killed me. I wish someone would hug me and tell me that everything will be OK. I’m tired and sometimes I think about suicide but my husband says I’m just bragging and making a big fuss from nothing. And even when God fills us up, we still experience the gamut of human emotion, which includes the lows as well as the highs. But when I let go of my expectations and detach from the outcome…I don’t really care how people respond! It is not true that no one cares about me. From: Highly Steel rested out mother. Buy yourself a present. When I pray, I thank God for my bird. I am currently doing research about how to make the characters in my first book pop off the page, and I came across She Blossoms earlier. I wouldn’t really call what I am doing as living. I am the type of person that tries so hard for everyone . This is such a hard place to be. I never got married of had children, I only had one published book which wasn’t successful, I have lost my drive to write. I’m not saying we should treat people bad, just that some don’t get how blessed they are to be with a person who treats them so well either because they take it for granted or whatever other reasons there are. We go through life, death, pain and joy. God works through people. Life doesnt feel like it’s worth living. I went through a bad breakup exactly six months ago and I thought I’d never get over it! Jesus, thank you for being here with us. The world is full of broken people. You are here for a reason, and you matter. Believe me when I say, suicide would be preferable to my existence! I have reached the point of hating life before, but I always held on to the hope that things will improve. You don’t even know how much comfort I found in your post…It was like receiving a hug from a friend. Know that someone out here hears you and loves you! I feel like I am beyond help so many door shut in my face, the feeling that I’m worthless and that no one cares is overbearing for me I am thinking about taking my own life. But they are not here when I need them. I have my own business which aligns with my talents and passions but lately I struggle just to answer emails much less work on the projects my clients have paid me for. She Blossoms, 7 Reasons You Feel Stuck in the Grieving Process, 17 Gifts to Surprise and Delight Your Boyfriend’s Mom and Dad, 20 Gift Ideas That Will Make Your Girlfriend’s Parents Happy, How to Cope When He Says “I Don’t Love You Anymore”. I say this because not once in my life (high school, college, graduate school, work, hobby groups, etc.,) has anyone ever shown an interest in me. Mum’s are still people, can you find a class or group in the new year to join? I am all alone. I know I need to move on, but I resist anything positive. I feel like I’m in a prison too. Lift up your head. Many people go with their families. I have no one to talk to, there is no mentor, and I was just scolded again for not having a “job”. I live by my mill, God bless her! There are other people who will go back-and-forth with me for a few minutes, saying generic things like I’ve been so busy lately and we should catch up soon. I truly hope and pray you are able to find healing too. One family member in particular spent about 20 years bleeding me dry of all my resources as well as my compassion; she even stole thousands of dollars from me when I needed it most; and now I have nothing left in the way of resources, compassion, or ability to help myself, let alone others anymore. Screw them! In my experience people run around for a few weeks usually up to the funeral and then after that they just drift back to their own lives. Anyone outside of South Africa? Tell anger bye bye. 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